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Karen Wyckoff Rein In Sarcoma Fund
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College and a misdiagnosis.
Karen
went to college at Willamette University in Oregon, where she continued
to be an active member of the campus and community. Karen was always
socially conscious, and at Willamette, she was involved in Habitat for
Humanity and was an integral part of bringing the AIDS quilt to the
campus.
Because
of an error in a biopsy done in Oregon during the spring of 1997, that
said a growth in her armpit was benign; surgery done in June actually
spread the sarcoma cancer. She knew after that first surgery that her
prognosis was grim. She refused to stop living but instead lived more
intensely. During the following summer and fall, Karen continued to
be active, even while undergoing surgery, radiation and chemotherapy.
She kept her summer-time job coaching tee-ball and pee-wee soccer and
spent her fall completing Willamette course work by correspondence.
Through all of this she kept her humor and her hope. She called her
managing oncologist, Dr. Randy Hurley "the Quarterback," but
she also spent a lot of time doing her own research on Sarcoma and treatments.
She felt strongly that a patient should be actively involved in their
own care. Dr. Hurley was the perfect Dr. for her because he encouraged
her involvement. She wrote funny descriptions of all of
the medical personnel that she met. She wrote a poem "The
Night before Chemo." She laughed and joked with her friends
to the point that one doctor put in her chart that, the patient and
friends were too light hearted about the situation. Karen was
quite amused and said that was the point.
Karen returned to Willamette for the spring semester of her senior year
and graduated with honors and B.A. in political science. . She and her
friends found many ways to laugh and enjoy life. At graduation
many people including professors were wearing buttons that said
"Geesy Cow, You Honkin Weenie Doorknob" because Karen had convinced
them all through her Minnesota Nights that we all talked that way. She
lived what she believed. Two years later the Willamette Politics department
would recognize that by naming their most meritorious political science
major award after Karen. But at Willamette as always her most treasured
memories were her friends.
Lutheran
Volunteer Corps..
After she graduated she joined the Lutheran
Volunteer Corps (LVC) for a year. She worked for Legal Aid
in North Minneapolis for a year. She conducted intake interviews
with clients, conducted legal outreach, served as a legislative advocate
for homeless youth and investigated cases as needed. She and four
roommates lived in North Minneapolis. They were provided with
housing and health insurance and each received $80 a month for food.
Karen and her roommates did much community service outside of their
jobs. They also had a great deal of fun. They proved that
you can have fun without money. They ran around the Community
in Chili Pepper Costumes recording the comments they received.
For entertainment they invited prominent politicians and community leaders
to dinner to discuss the problems of the poor (and fed them pumpkin
curry).
Cancer Returns.
In the fall of 1999, Karen enrolled at the
University of Minnesota School of Public Health to pursue her Master's
degree, but she again began to have health problems: the cancer had
returned. Karen spent the next two years fighting her battle against
cancer, all the while keeping everyone's spirits up (including her own).
She also continued to live her life to her fullest, taking part in multiple weddings, celebrating the birth of her niece, visiting with her family and friends, volunteering whenever she was feeling well and winning countless SkipBo games. She was a wonderful daughter, granddaughter, sister, aunt and friend, adding spark, intelligence, humor and support to the lives around her. From her preschool days to her last days, Karen never let anyone forget how much she loved and valued them.
Karen spent her life trying to change the world. She coached little kids, teaching them to play and to enjoy soccer and tee ball. She visited the elderly in nursing homes, was a Chemo Angel for a six year old boy with cancer, participated in the MS 150 bike ride and MS Walk, and worked at Legal Aid.
Even when chemotherapy made her sick for days on end, Karen kept her sense pf humor and her sense of justice. She solicited friends, family, and acquaintances to help her raise money for hunger relief through "Karen's Fasting Service-Using Chemo to fight hunger". People enrolled in the service and sent a donation to either Second Harvest or Oxfam. She earned over a thousand dollars for hunger causes. She figured that as long as the chemo forced her to fast, she might as well help the world !
The first "Rein in Sarcoma", July 2001...
Just two months before she died, Karen conceived and coordinated the first annual Rein in Sarcoma event. The event attracted over 250 friends and supporters and raised over $10,000 to support cancer research. Karen was always lighting fires within people to encourage them to change the world for the better.
She died in the arms of her parents and brother on August 28th, 2001 two weeks before her 26th birthday. Karen was always true to her friends and her values, and her spirit will live on, helping us all to make a difference in the world.
Ten years before her death, she wrote for a Roseville High School American Experience Class:
"I do not know what death is, but someday I too will die.
Hopefully, I will leave behind a better world for my passing.
I hope that when I die,
I will be able to look back on a life that was fulfilling
and was spent living, not waiting to die.
I hope that when the time comes for me to die, I will have learned
"enough of the meaning of life to be ready to die."
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